Someone posted this on another board and I thought it was really interesting to see the different responses. 20 years ago, I was 23 year old and married for 3.5 years. DH and I were beginning the struggle with infertility although I would be pregnant that June (I was 24 by that time - birthday in May). My husband had started his business a few months before, quitting his job and so I was the sole provider. That proved to be a bit scary when I lost my job right after New Year's but my husband's business partner hired me so that we'd still have money coming in. It worked out to be a great blessing since I was pregnant that few months later and it was a desk job - not so much walking. We were able to keep our home and the adventure that was ahead of us was unbelievable when I look back on it. God really had a hand in our lives - it's so clear looking back.