I'm sure that some of you have been in this situation. Two friends are in the middle of a divorce, and you are literally caught in the middle. One party tells me this. The other party tells me that. And I literally do not know who to believe. This I do know as fact....police were involved in the matter. And jail time was served. But then I have to ask, did the husband actually do something he claims he didn't. Or did the wife manipulate and trick him into doing this something that he claims he didn't do. Or is it some other scenario all together. All I know is that I'm tired of having to constantly listen (daily, sometimes more) to both sides. She wants out. He doesn't want out, but seems to be more concerned about the financial end of things than actually being back together with her. I know I'm speaking in riddles here, but I am worn out from all of this. It has taken a toll on me emotionally. I truly do not know who to belive, but I know that one of my two friends is lying on a very big scale. My gut instict says to side with her, but he has been a friend for many years. Up until this event he was very active as an elder in a church of another faith, but I have noted in my own mind that he loves "running the church" much, much more than actually "living out the faith". And this observation has disturbed me over time. Any advice?