Many young people (at least in my observation in non Bible belt states) seem to be departing the church or at least not actively participating after the college years and either leaving altogether or departing to the Contemporary and Charismatic churches. In our home church there are a few our age (30's) and most of them do not show up to SS on a regular basis. In the Calvinistic church where I join the men there is only one person in my age gap, while all other are in their 50's and beyond. I am 3x and the other man is in his late 20's - early 30's. I mean there are probably others in my age gap, but they never show up to men's study or men's breakfasts. However if I were to stop by one of the many seeker friendly and Charismatic churches in the area (there are many and they are very populated) dollars to doughnuts there would be a half dozen people in their late twenties - thirties. Three seeker friendly churches in my local area all well populated seem to be preaching the essentials of the faith and so I have no basis for challenging them, but I disagree with their Rick Warren, Willow Creek & Andy Stanley ministry philosophy, so I just keep my distance.