Me and someone have a difference of opinion in a certain area. This person has not really been to any church besides IFB and I am afraid that the Fundamentalist have burdened this person down into thinking things that are not a sin are, etc.. For example when I first went to BJU it was a sin to have a beard, women to wear pants, mix swim, go to movies theaters, and the like. The Fundamentalist would have had a big problem with Ray Comfort and many other Way of the Master evangelists because they have beards, wear shorts when doing evangelism, listen to Contemporary worship, and have fellowship with Southern Baptists, Calvary Chapel, and others..So after having that experience at BJU and in those IFB churches I am confused as to what the "appearance of evil" means because some will bear one with guilt into thinking something is sin when it is not. Oftentimes the Fundamentalist want to play the role of the Holy Spirit in ones life and do not want people to think for themselves or to have a conscience. This is not saying that the Fundamentalist do not have qualities as they do in certain areas, however they also have a number of weaknesses. But regardless so do we all, including myself. So what do you say? I am not sure I should bow to their wishes as I am not convinced I am in sin in my situation, nor have I seen hard evidence that I am leading anyone else into sin. Leading one into sin would be doing the following. Drinking a alcoholic beverage and the other person going back to being a drunk, etc.. I am not doing this but this would be leading someone into sin.