I signed up to help my church tomorrow however due to differences I won't help long just briefly. I am willing to work with Arminian but often (not always) they won't work well with me. I let them be but they usually get intimidated or convicted or whatever. When I witness I will strive to start with Total Depravity but they often ignore that but start with God Loves you. Yes it's okay to start with that as long as you hit on sin as David Jeremiah did in a book, but all too often do hey dodge sin and focus on results. How can a Calvinist work well with Arminian or perhaps unless they will accept the Calvinist for who he is it's not possible as Earth Wind Fire said once.