Featured Lewd Chapel Message at Louisiana College

Why is a grown man in a chapel service telling young women to shave their pubic area? Were there young men in this chapel service?

I'm very confused at why this is going on at a Christian college during a chapel service.

Edited to say: Now that I have read the whole article, he seems to have given mixed messages.

He first says not to have multiple partners. It makes your body "a crackhouse". Then he say to "mow your lawn" to keep your "partnerS" satisfied.

What is going on at LC? I have a student from my church who is going there this fall.

 

Yes, I've read it a few times. I don't recall seeing anything in there where a woman should shave her pubic area or any other place on her body to please a man.

All of that is between a wife and a husband. Period.

By-the-by, Dara said in his "apology" statement that.....well, let me quote the whole thing.

"I am sorry to hear that some of you were offended by the tone of my preaching at the chapel this week. I am grateful that you brought this issue to my attention and I ask your forgiveness. It was never my intention to cause anyone any distress. Next time, I'll be sure to weigh my warped sense of humor against my sense of propriety and choose something that isn't controversial."

Why was this man "preaching" on something that has no basis in scripture?

If someone can show me where the Bible says for a woman to shave her body - anywhere to please a man, I'll let this go.

I'm not a prude and I'll discuss anything with anyone anywhere and I, after 17 years on the BB, am still unhappy that we cannot discuss certain things that are in the Bible because it might offend "young people". I'm telling, those young people need to KNOW what the Bible says about things that we cannot discuss here.

I'll just ask you, Reynolds. What if your pastor stood up this Sunday and said, "The topic of my sermon today is on female sexuality with one of the points being on shaving of pubic hair to please men. I don't have any scripture base for this so you all can just put your Bibles away."

In all actuality, what would you do. I know what I would do.

 

So where is the adult female who speaks in chapel to the young men on how to make their genitals more attractive to their wives? Where is the adult female who speaks to young men in chapel about the names society calls their bodies when they, the young men, sleep around?

Can you imagine what would happen if the reverse happened - a woman speaking like this to young men in a chapel setting. She'd be lynched. She'd be called vile names. It would be very bad.

I can't believe this is acceptable to people that a man speaks from the pulpit to young girls about shaving their pubic areas and makes, in sick humor [his words, not mine], a joke out of the matter.

I'm still flabbergasted that some approve of this. After 17 years on the BB, I shouldn't be surprised, but I always still am.

 

So as long as he had a straight face, he could speak to these young ladies about their genitals from the pulpit.

 

You keep bringing up the Bible as if the Song of Solomon has anything to do with this man's "preaching" [he called it preaching] about his opinion of a woman's private body parts and his preaching in a Saturday Night Live/Def Comedy Jam manner.

I've told you that I've read the Song of Solomon - more than once. It has absolutely no bearing in this matter. Sex is important in a healthy Christian marital relationship. Everybody knows that. Every - body. But how this book of the Bible is related to this man's vulgar/coarse comedy routine is beyond my comprehension.

I've also read 1 Timothy - Paul's directive to the young pastor on how to BE a pastor. He tells Timothy to "treat the older women like mothers and the younger women like sisters, with absolute purity."

Paul also said in the same letter to the young pastor for him to "Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity."

This Greek word for purity is found only in these two verses - Paul to Timothy. It means "chastity", "sinlessness of life", and "cleanness".

Dr. Dara was NOT "an example in speech, conduct, or purity." Dr. Dara was NOT treating these young women, with "absolute purity" like sisters.

He had no authority to "preach" his opinion as a directive about a woman shaving her private pubic area to please a man.

And Louisiana College failed in this instance to set the matter straight.

I've read literally every article I can find in this matter and read about it on another board. I've read every single comment on everything I could find and yours, Reynolds, is the only opinion that those who don't like his "sermon" are prudes and that there's nothing wrong with what he said.