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Entertainment as bait?

Discussion in 'General Baptist Discussions' started by christianyouth, Jun 13, 2007.

  1. Bro. Curtis

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    I'm impressed with your ability to articulate when grouchy.
     
  2. Scarlett O.

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    Now don't be going and making me laugh now Bro. Curtis. :laugh: :laugh:

    You know that laughter is akin to mirth. And mirth is akin to joy. Joy is akin to merriment and you know we Christians can't be involved with merriment.

    Merriment is too much like fun....and fun leads to the devil.

    I really have to sign off now. :saint:
     
  3. gb93433

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    So you would say that when Jesus ate with sinners that was using carnal means to reach people?

    All ignorance of God and the Bible results from ignorance of scripture and having a relationship with the living God.

    To know about erroneous Christianity I do not need to read any church history or know about total depravity. All you have to do is to read the Bible from the first century church and you will see departures from Christianity then. It is quite obvious.
     
  4. J. Jump

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    :laugh: You really give me a good laugh. You accuse me of liking nothing but arguing and you tell me to grow up and then you make this statement. You are a real comedian.

    I'm sorry I forgot you were one of the folks that never has to prove anything, but everything has to be proven to you. My bad.

    And we should not be surprised that you can't keep anything in context either.
     
  5. TCGreek

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    But what makes it all intriguing is that both camps say that their approach is founded in Scripture. Does Scripture support the entertainment-bait concept that is used by so many local churches?

    I believe the reference to Total Depravity and Church History in this context of discussion was phrased incorrectly.

    I maintain that God is the one who is building his church and his kerygma is the means to that end, the scandal of the cross.

    The means of conveying that kerygma is what is essentially at the heart of church-growth debates.
     
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  6. J. Jump

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    I think this was a very important key to your post. I don't think anyone is saying you can't go out after church and have a burger or something like that.

    I think that's great. However when you say hey why don't you come to our church service because there's going to be games and free food and what not I don't think that is a very Biblical approach.

    I would agree with some others on this thread that really evangelism should be more on the unsaved's turf than on "church" turf. For some reason we bring the unsaved to church to get them saved, but I don't see any of that going on in Scripture.

    As you yourself said in one post I believe, Jesus went to the sinners and ate. Of course that is a whole other issue in itself, but the idea is going out not bringing in.

    Church is really for the saved.
     
  7. J. Jump

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    You wouldn't even have to do that. It was open for anyone that showed up to the service member or non-member it didn't matter.

    I don't see how using a house, a harley or a large sum of money to get people in the door is a good thing. I know God takes our wrongs and makes wonderful things happen, but to think that God is okay with any and all methods to share the gospel is missing the mark.
     
  8. rbell

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    The more I thought about your response, the more it troubled me.

    I'm not angry at you...not much in Digital Land gets to me. But it does concern me...I do not want the job of determining one's heart, and knowing their eternal destiny.

    My methods were Biblical--this guy's sincerity was unquestionable. His faith was evident (he had already taken care of a few things in his life he needed to, such as dipping--all on his own, with no "instuction" from me.) His desire to please God was palpable. Imagine that.

    Will he be SuperChristian at age 35? Who knows? He might even go 24 hours without sinning :laugh: :laugh: (whoops! I'm channelling another thread).

    But as of now, I like what I see. And I see no reason to doubt his commitment.
     
  9. webdog

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    I'll take that as you can't offer Scriptural proof that fun is worldly (sinful). I don't have to prove anything here...it's on you, you made the statment. I won't be holding my breath.
     
  10. christianyouth

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    Scarlett, I don't. I was just explaining, if A doesn't happen, B doesn't happen. If the full-Gospel is not preached, unmitigated truth, then salvation does not occur. I don't have to look into his heart for that. I admit that I may have wrongly equated rbell's evangelism with non-confrontational type, but if he talked about sin,repentance, etc, then he was faithful.

    Now, how can I judge his salvation? Easily. "every good tree bringeth forth good fruit, a good tree cannot bring forth bad fruit nor can a bad tree bring forth good fruit, every tree that does not bring forth good fruit is cast into the fire" - 1 John "God is light and in him is no darkness at all, if we say that we know God and yet walk in darkness, we lie and do not the truth" and a host of other verses teach that among the body of believers, salvation will be evident. Wheat and Tares, which most people will counter with, is determined by many exegete's to be a reference to outside of the church, so the common interpretation of saying , 'See, there are saved folk in the church right along with unsaved folk in the church' is questionable.

    I dont mean to be doubting his salvation in a judgemental way, I'm a Calvinist, we aren't allowed the priviledge of being judgemental. I am also a realist, and realize that many evangelism 'methods', especially when considered the norm, are terrible and unbiblical, designed so Christians can stay in their comfort zone, and so unbelievers will not be offended.

    I used to use this approach, the non-confrontational, but recently I have been using the WOTM way, just praying that God would use me and approaching strangers, and my results have just been reinforcing my biblical convictions.






    It is not a matter of just 'that part'. It is not just an explanation of ' your a sinner, we all are sinners', it is doing what Paul,John,Jesus did. What did Jesus do when the rich young ruler fell on his face before him? Did he just say, 'your a sinner', No. He specified sin, he made it personal. Paul? He also specified sin, in his letter to the Romans he begins asking them of specific sins "you who speak against commiting adultery, do you commit adultery?" "You who say its wrong to oppress widows do you rob temples?" and so on.

    It is about emphasis. I see a lot of people witness who use much grace, and not much law. and of course, it only makes sense that if a non-confrontational approach is implemented, that you would not want to risk the 'friendship' that you built over the pizza, so you may go alil light on the law. Why? Beacuse the law offends us, it insinuates that we are sinners, and a lot of times agitates people to hear someone take them through the law and explain their sinfulness. If I'm on the street, I don't have to water it down, I can give the Gospel in an unmitigated form, because I am not concerned as much with acceptance of some people I don't even know, but because I am concerned that God recieve glory by saving his elect, and he chose to save them through the preaching of the gospel, nothing else.





    Now that you mention it, my VBS went like this. I go invite all my friends from public school, entice them with fun and food, and then they come and get 'saved' only to never come to church again or have any desire for the things of God. Every time. That was the first indication that got me thinking, and then the next summer I talked with my camp counsellor about it, so that got me investigating this issue more clearly. Then as I read more of Scripture, and embraced God's sovreignty in salvation, and looked at the results of VBS and the whole mentality behind it, I came to view it as a product of people who do not think God can draw the sinner to himself. So since God cannot do his job anymore, we must do his job, by getting cool screens and cool music and cool looking vbs leaders to attract the kids in, then once we get in them in, we will use God's methods, preaching the Gospel.

     
  11. Scarlett O.

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    The boy had been saved literally a matter of hours. He indicated that he was very earnest in his decision and very excited about being baptisted. That's pretty good fruit to me.

    Other than that, I don't think that he, as a newborn Christian only a few hours old, has had sufficient time to produce too much fruit at all, good or bad.



    Au, contraire.....I never said that it was "just" acknowledging sinfulness. I said it included it.

    I was only responded to what you initially said in your casting doubts that this young man was genuinely converted.

    You said, "If he was not shown his sinfulness from the law, if their was no contrition or humility.....then their was no conversion."

    I explained that leading someone to the Lord inherently means the inclusion of showing them their sinful nature. You cannot be saved if you do not acknowledge your sinfulness.



    You cannot lead some to the Lord without offending them. Telling people that they are filthy sinners in the presence of a Holy God should offend......by offend, I mean the Holy Spirit convicts of sin.

    But why can't a Christian having a pizza lunch with his unsaved friend witness to him about sin?

    I feel you are being very legalistic on this matter. Perhaps I am not understanding you. If I am wrong, tell me, but it seems that you are saying that sharing the Gospel with someone has to be stern, harsh, "preachy", only in appropriate settings, circumstances, and only by certain people.

    I submit that the Gospel can be presented and shared by any Christian in any setting.

    I'm not saying to take the Gospel lightly or man's need for salvation lightly. I am saying that there is no prescribed setting nor scripted dialogue in presenting the Gospel to someone who is lost.

    I can understand where a Calvinist would view any church evangelistic mission in this light. At least that is my feeble understanding of Calvinism from reading on the BB.

    I have been teaching VBS for 30 years. I can assure you that I do not believe that God cannot draw the sinner to himself. In fact, God is the ONLY one who can draw the sinner to Himself.

    We simply draw the children to church with invitations for and promises of bible study and fun fellowship and present the Gospel to them. God is in charge of the "drawing unto Himself". Not us.

    This is where your Calvinism is showing. :saint:

    We do use cool methods of bible and Gospel presentations in VBS and we do preach the Gospel, under the direction of God's authority.

    However, we do NOT do this because we think that God cannot do his job anymore.

    We go out and invite children and their families to church and share the Gospel with them because God is using us as His vessel to get His job done. He is the Potter....we are the clay.

    The bible says that God uses vessels. New ones, even broken ones....but not dirty ones.

    God uses people. He does not need to use us. We don't deserve to be used by Him. We, bring absolutely nothing to the table. But God uses His children.....everyday.

    Why else are there spiritual gifts of evangelism? And why else is there a Great Commission?
     
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    To throw this thread further into a spiral, does someone want to tell me why people keep bringing up Jesus Christ eating with sinners, harlots, publicans and the like and having fellowship with them.

    We are not called to have fellowship with unbelievers, in any form or fashion. We are not equal to Jesus Christ nor above him. He was able to prevail, He is the Son of God. He won over temptation in the wilderness, He beat temptation. What makes us think that we can do that same, we can't, we are not Jesus Christ.

    Why would we be instructed to not have fellowship with unbelievers if we were able to fight against temptation and against their influence as Christ did. BECAUSE WE CAN'T. And God knows that.

    We are not to live on their level, but to bring sinners to ours. Jesus Christ may have eaten with them, but he also caused conviction within them to draw them closer unto him. Fellowshipping with unbelievers and not having the gospel message does not create salvation, it misleads them into a false idea of Christianity. Hence so many false conversations in the church today. Conviction of sins by the law has been removed and repentence as well. Someone may pray the prayer, but they are just sampling what you have to see what its like. He did not fellowship with them and then left them unchanged.

    I just thought I would throw this out there.
     
  13. Scarlett O.

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    I really don't see anywhere on this lengthy and ad nausem thread where anyone has said that.

    No one is talking about going to a bar with unbelievers after work and "fellowshipping" with them. Nor is anyone talking about continually having lunch with friends who are unsaved and never presenting the Gospel to them, but only hoping that your salvation rubs off on them by osmosis.

    Let's say you have a lost co-worker. You have been waiting for a good time to talk to him about the Lord. He invites you to lunch with a couple of other co-workers. After you eat and fellowship, you seize the opportunity to share what Christ means to you and God's plan for salvation.

    How on earth does your having lunch with them negate telling them about their sinfulness and calling them to repentance?

    How does taking a group of young people to eat pizza on Friday night before you have your bible study at the church negate telling them about their sinfulness and calling them to repentance?

    How does inviting children to Vacation Bible School where they sing, learn scriptures, play bible games, and eat cool snacks negate the ability to tell children about their sinful natures and call them to repentence?

    Am I misunderstanding you and others here?

    Exactly! My prayers and prayers of others here is when we invite lost people to lunch and share Jesus with them or bible study or fellowship/preaching that God will use us as His vessels and that God will not leave them unchanged, either!
     
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    Define "fellowship". It seems like you are equating friendship with fellowship.
     
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    What is the bible's definition of fellowship? What is it equated to? I don't care about my definition, my opinion doesn't matter or ideas doesn't matter.
     
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    You know what the problem with both approaches seems to be? There is no continuing education. Get 'em to make a profession and then leave the newborns to figure it all out on their own.

    VBS is a great tool IF there is continuing interest in making sure the new converts are fed. Cold witnessing on the streets to folk we don't even know is a great tool IF there is continuing interest in making sure the new converts are fed. See the similarity?

    If folks are getting saved and then not returning are we sure they weren't saved or was there a lack of interest on the part of the leader(s) in making sure they started growing as Christians? Follow up and discipleship are important!
     
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    I have read the post on this subject and shake my head. I am a youth minister. I been at it for several years. I kinda have a grasp of the issue.


    Some people don't like any kind of music but hymns. To each their own. These people bashing certain types of music need to listen to it. Rich Mullins lyrics are some of the most spiritual lyrics ever wrote. Chris Rice will bring you into the throne room. Third Day and Casting Crowns are very very good.

    If game night will bring kids in to hear the Gospel than it is worth it. I have seen hundreds of teens saved through lock-ins, bowling trips, concerts, or movie nights. That makes it worth it to me.

    As far as seeing them grow. I have several kids now in the ministry. I have kids teaching Sunday School, Deacons, and heading up other areas in their church. Yeah, we have fun and will continue as long as I work with them!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    This is exactly why I think entertainment as bait as the OP has put it is a very dangerous practice. And that's why I like the quote that I have put up. If you win them with a circus it's going to take even more to keep them.

    Discipleship is a long, hard, costly process and how are we going to be able to make disciples when we have to say okay we got you with the pizza and what not, but now it's time to get down to business.

    Well that's the whole point we don't. And this is evidence by what we have going on in our churches. Our churches are primarily for discipling the saved, but there is very little discipling going on. We're still about fun and games and worried about winning the unsaved.

    For example a church that I went to in this area had this philosophy . . . the preacher said you won't get deep teaching from the pulpit. That is what you are going to get in Sunday School. But the Sunday School director said oh no you're not going to get deep teaching in Sunday School because Sunday School is for developing relationships. He said the deep teaching will come during Bible studies during the week and develop out of your SS class.

    This church ran well over 1,000 folks and I taught a Bible study course on Wednesday night at the church and only had 4 people that came. There were a couple of other classes that were taught that had less than 20 folks in them. I also taught a men's Bible study class that we only had three regular attenders, including myself and a third that would show up every now and then.

    Discipleship is hard and costly and there aren't a lot of Christians that want to be discipled anymore.

    The church is in a sad state today.
     
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    What draws them, will keep them. Is the Holy Spirit doing the drawing? or is it the promise of games, sports and parties that is drawing?
     
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    This pretty much sums it up.

    There's nothing wrong with entertainment in and of itself.

    But, it's the position that it plays.

    If they come for the circus, you'll have to give them a circus every week. If they come for the fellowship, they'll enjoy the circus when it's there.
     
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