1. Welcome to Baptist Board, a friendly forum to discuss the Baptist Faith in a friendly surrounding.

    Your voice is missing! You will need to register to get access to all the features that our community has to offer.

    We hope to see you as a part of our community soon and God Bless!

Trend Toward Head Coverings for Women, 1 Cor 11.5

Discussion in 'Baptist Theology & Bible Study' started by Marcia, Oct 13, 2006.

  1. Marcia

    Marcia Active Member

    Joined:
    May 12, 2004
    Messages:
    11,139
    Likes Received:
    1
    Two points:
    1) The phrase "as above, so below" is from Hermetic (occult) teachings that life on earth was reflected in the heavens, i.e., through astrology. In modern thinking, astrologers and others who believe in astrology, see the universe as one force or energy, therefore, patterns in the positions of planets (and sometimes other heavenly bodies) correlate with the lives of people born with those patterns (I used to be an astrologer and New Ager).

    2) I think the NT clearly teaches the headship of men over women in the church. It is not patriarchal, but simply reflects the order of creation, as stated in the passages in DHK's post and in other passages of the NT. This does not mean men have the right to boss women around or that women can't think for themselves or must be passive. It is an issue of biblical authority.
     
  2. bound

    bound New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2006
    Messages:
    664
    Likes Received:
    0
    You mean like the Biblical Teaching: "Verily I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever ye shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven." (Matthew 18:18)

    How much do you know about Hermes Trismegistus?

    The Bible also teaches the stoning of law-breakers and we've managed to overcome such things. I believe in the equality of every soul created in the image of God, male or female. To articulate a view of male dominance ultimately denies this equality. I have a problem with that.

    Peace and God Bless.
     
  3. DHK

    DHK <b>Moderator</b>

    Joined:
    Jul 13, 2000
    Messages:
    37,982
    Likes Received:
    137
    As for widows we have an example in Acts 6 where the church cared for the widows. The apostles were doing all the work and couldn't handle it. They then appinted seven Godly men to supervise that work. The church took care of it. Therefore they would submit to the authority of the church (ultimately the pastor), who is subject to Christ, as the passage teaches.
    Historically, and I believe Biblically, this is only the case when the widow has no other place to go. Remeber this was a time of great persecution. The responsibility of elderly parents falls on the children--the extended family. When a "widow" often an elderly parent who has lost his or her spouse can no longer cope it is the responsibility of the family first and foremost to take care of their own. In a Biblical pattern the onus usually fell on the eldest son, but this need not to be so. The family needs to come together and take care of their parents in their old age--not just throw them into a nursing home and forget about them--but take care of them. Often the elderly in this age have Alzeimer's or Parkinson's, are confined to a wheel chair, or have many other disabilities that encumber their ability to fully take care of themselves. The headship of the home is then transferred to the son, who is taking care of his elderly father and/or mother. The elderly father/mother has become a dependent of the son. Then the widow shows her submission by wearing a head covering. Though extended families are not so common here, they are very common in eastern countries.

    History tells an interesting story. I can remember 40-45 years ago (I know many here can't :) ), that in every church I ever attended women wore hats or head coverings. Without exception that was the "rule," or custom. I would dare guess that if you researched it out that would have been the custom from that period right back to the time of Christ.

    What changed? During WWII many things changed. Women were needed to work in factories, even steel mills because workers were short. Women even joined the armed forces. I know, for my mother was in the airforce. She was in communications typing out morse code.
    When the war ended attitudes had changed. Many men never returned leaving women with children and no means of support, but they did have a taste of working outside the home--something unheard of before the war.
    Others now had "careers," and even when their husbands did return they didn't want to give them up. All of this began to lead to women's suffrage, women's liberation, and eventually the feminist movement and unisex. It was the moral downfall of America. Before that time you would have never seen a woman in slacks. That was men's apparel. Before that time women always stayed at home with the children and raised them on their own. It was their duty to do so. The man was the wage urner. If he didn't provide for his own he was worse than an infidel.
    It was churches that helped out those in need not the government's social secutiy net. No one had locks on their doors. People didn't have to live in constant fear of rapists and other violence. Children could roam the outdoors, the woods, rocks, rivers, and hills freely. Now they are places of danger.

    After WWII things changed drastically. It centered around the home. The home began to fall apart. Careers for women. Equality demanded. The feminist movement began. Modesty was done away with. Head coverings were discarded. And so on, until we come to the depraved society in which we live in today.

    Before people harp on equality consider that it was God that set the rules right from the garden of Eden.
    It was God that put the curse on Eve which has continued to this day--that she shall bear children in pain, and that she should be subservient to her husband. That has never changed. God has never rescinded that.

    Man was to toil by the sweat of his brow. He was to provide for his family and be the head of the woman. Read Genesis 3 and find these principles out for yourselves. This is God's order right from The Fall. They have never changed.

    They were the same order given again in the Law at Mount Sinai.
    They were reiterated again by Paul in 1Cor.11:1-16, and in many other passages throughout the NT.

    We are one in Christ:
    First because we are all sinners.
    Second because Christ came and died for all of us--male and female; Jew and Gentile.
    Third, because everyone of us who have beleived are saved and are brothers in sisters in Christ. Before God we have equal standing. Before God we can go to him in prayer just as equally as any one else.
    Fourth, there is no partiality with God. There is no person in the world that God loves any more than you.

    But God is a God of order. He has set order in the universe.
    He has set order in the world.
    He has set order in government.
    He has set order in the church.
    And he has set order in the family.

    If you reject the order that God has bestowed upon us, then you are rejecting the commands of God, which in effect would be God himself.
    DHK
     
  4. bound

    bound New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2006
    Messages:
    664
    Likes Received:
    0
    DHK,

    Such misogyny is as unattractive today as it has ever been and ultimately does great damage to any faith which suggests a egalitarian message of universal salvation.

    This is not the Christianity of Jesus Christ.
     
  5. ccrobinson

    ccrobinson Active Member

    Joined:
    Jan 12, 2005
    Messages:
    4,459
    Likes Received:
    1
    Yeah, women voting is definitely part of the moral downfall of America. :rolleyes:

    You suggest that women's suffrage came after WWII, but the fact is that the the 19th amendment was ratified in August 1920.
     
  6. annsni

    annsni Well-Known Member
    Site Supporter

    Joined:
    May 30, 2006
    Messages:
    20,914
    Likes Received:
    706
    Here is the entire passage:

    Galatians 3:23-29 "Now before faith came, we were held captive under the law, imprisoned until the coming faith would be revealed. So then, the law was our guardian until Christ came, in order that we might be justified by faith. But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a guardian, for in Christ Jesus you are all sons of God, through faith. For as many of you as were baptized into Christ have put on Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither slave nor free, there is neither male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. And if you are Christ's, then you are Abraham's offspring, heirs according to promise."

    Does this say anything against obeying our authority? No. It talks of our stance before the Throne. Romans 13:1 says "Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God." and I Timothy 2:12 says "I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet." So authority continues to be taught in the New Testament as well as the old.

    Where does it say in the Bible that the church is to be like heaven? I don't read that. I also know that we are NOT going to be like the angels and unisex because God didn't create us that way. We will not marry but we will most certainly be as God created us - male and female.

    This concept of women being under the authority of her husband or father is NOT damaging since it is God's design. What man has done to it, however, IS damaging. I see a lot of men demanding submissive wives when they would not be willing to give up a football game for her - no less his life. It would be a good idea to read the whole of Scriptures on this topic.

    Ann
     
  7. Marcia

    Marcia Active Member

    Joined:
    May 12, 2004
    Messages:
    11,139
    Likes Received:
    1
    Bound, am getting ready to go out so will have to answer quickly, but I just want to say that Matt 18.18 is about church authority being given in heaven to those on earth. What God says is what authority can be given (specifically in church discipline, which is what the passage is about).

    As far as Hermes, go, hermetic magic comes from his name - it's a system of magic that has influenced Western magical traditions. Whether one sees this as real or not, people do practice forms of magic. I just wrote a book on the occult (actually, I was asked to write it) called SpellBound.

    I also believe in the equality of every soul but I think the Bible does teach different roles for men and women.
     
  8. bound

    bound New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2006
    Messages:
    664
    Likes Received:
    0
    So I would guess that the abolision of slavery and the women's liberation movement are both things against the authority of God to many of you?

    This is absurd.

    And this should be a pretext for slavery and the subjugation of women?

    Again this kind of rationalization of worldly authority is absurd.

    So do you believe the same woman who raised a boy to be a man is all of a sudden somehow incapable of giving sound instruction?

    Again this is absurd.

    The letter of the law 'kills' but the spirit of the law 'heals'. focus on the 'spirit' of the law.

    I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me. - John 17:23

    For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven. - Matthew 22:30

    Angels are spirit and have either male or female.

    God does not will that any be under the yoke of another but free from the Old Law under His Grace.
     
  9. bound

    bound New Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2006
    Messages:
    664
    Likes Received:
    0
    I am not arguing that we have the same 'roles' but that we as individuals are equal and should be treated with the same diginity without oppression or subjugation.

    Hermes was also a philosopher and much of his philosophy makes it's way into religious thought.

    Thanks for the post.
     
  10. annsni

    annsni Well-Known Member
    Site Supporter

    Joined:
    May 30, 2006
    Messages:
    20,914
    Likes Received:
    706
    Eh - talk to God about that. It's HIS design.


    No, I'm not saying that. What I'm saying is that GOD said that a woman is not to teach a man. It's His design whether we can do an awesome job or not.


    Nah - I'll focus on God's Word.



    This says nothing of heaven on earth or that we're to make earth like heaven.



    Yes - we will be as the angels and not marry. It doesn't say that we will be unisex at all.



    Ummm - do a study on authority in Scripture and tell me if that's still true.
     
  11. Scarlett O.

    Scarlett O. Moderator
    Moderator

    Joined:
    May 22, 2002
    Messages:
    11,384
    Likes Received:
    944
    Faith:
    Baptist
    What a ridiculously BROAD brush!!

    I don't even know how to respond to this.....I am at a loss for words.

    Well, you got that underlined part right.


    And how is this related to women who have full time jobs?


    Again.....I am at a complete and utter loss for words. How does my having a full time job contribute to society's depravity?

    Ah.....one of the prime reasons why I am not married. To be cursed by God and marry a man who, as you say, with God's permission, could treat me with such disdain in his manner as you have in your voice......why bother?
     
  12. annsni

    annsni Well-Known Member
    Site Supporter

    Joined:
    May 30, 2006
    Messages:
    20,914
    Likes Received:
    706
    I believe in wifely submission but submission is different than being subservient. Being subservient means "serving or acting in a subordinate capacity; subordinate." (from Dictionary.com) Subordinate means "of less importance; secondary: subservient or inferior." That means that woman has less of a value than a man. That's just not true. Submission means "inclined or ready to submit; unresistingly or humbly obedient". The Bible says for WOMEN to submit to their husbands - not for husbands to make their wives to sumbit. God's design is not to have an person as being inferior but to willfully submit themselves to the Godly authority of their husbands. Husbands are told to love their wives and lay down their life for them. I think too often we forget that part.

    Ann
     
  13. Gina B

    Gina B Active Member

    Joined:
    Dec 30, 2000
    Messages:
    16,944
    Likes Received:
    1
    I may come back to this later, but I gotta say real fast Scarlett...I don't even know what to say! He has me speechless too, and I agree with him to a degree!

    It's how he's presenting it maybe.

    It's like this difference in me giving my child a candy bar:

    Way one: Hey sweetie! You've been so good and helpful, I really have enjoyed your company! Oh, I stopped by the store and thought of you, here's one of your favorite kinds of candy.

    Way two: Here ya go, take this and get out of my face. Try not to wolf it all down at once.

    The candy bar remains the same! (and is still good)

    But boy, can I really change the way my kid looks at it by how I present it!
     
  14. J.D.

    J.D. Active Member
    Site Supporter

    Joined:
    Feb 21, 2006
    Messages:
    3,553
    Likes Received:
    11
    Uh, sorry to rile you ladies, but DHK is right about many societal ills being related to Rosy the Riveter refusing to go back to the kitchen after WWII. It's been recognized by many sociologists. I remember studying about many years ago in college.
     
  15. Jim1999

    Jim1999 <img src =/Jim1999.jpg>

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2002
    Messages:
    15,460
    Likes Received:
    1
    And, How many of you were alive before the war to experience these things?

    I get a chuckle.

    Cheers,

    Jim
     
  16. annsni

    annsni Well-Known Member
    Site Supporter

    Joined:
    May 30, 2006
    Messages:
    20,914
    Likes Received:
    706
    Well, *I* was most certainly not!! I'm not even considered a Baby Boomer! I was born a year too late, it seems.
     
  17. Scarlett O.

    Scarlett O. Moderator
    Moderator

    Joined:
    May 22, 2002
    Messages:
    11,384
    Likes Received:
    944
    Faith:
    Baptist
    I'm glad somebody can.
     
    #77 Scarlett O., Oct 17, 2006
    Last edited: Oct 17, 2006
  18. Jim1999

    Jim1999 <img src =/Jim1999.jpg>

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2002
    Messages:
    15,460
    Likes Received:
    1
    ............But Scarlett, I am a man..........I am allowed to chuckle.........and my wife said it is so..........

    Cheers,

    Jim
     
  19. Scarlett O.

    Scarlett O. Moderator
    Moderator

    Joined:
    May 22, 2002
    Messages:
    11,384
    Likes Received:
    944
    Faith:
    Baptist
    A chuckle from someone like you, Jim, is a balm in an otherwise discouraging thread. I mean that. :wavey:
     
  20. Jim1999

    Jim1999 <img src =/Jim1999.jpg>

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2002
    Messages:
    15,460
    Likes Received:
    1
    Thank you, Scarlett..........I think someone told you I marched for women's rights in Toronto some years ago.....:thumbs: How is that for a right-wing-Bible-thumper?

    Cheers,

    Jim
     
Loading...