:tear: That's terrible! I can't even imagine it. Sounds like a Monday night movie. I think I knew that earlier, but forgot. You seem like such a strong person, no wonder.I Am Blessed 17 said:This statement is incorrect, Joe. There are too many widows and widowers who are alive and well.
I did not think I could live without my husband either. My husband died when I was 27 and I had 4 young children to raise. All of us are still around. Was it pleasant? Of course not! But we all survived.
A bonus is pretty people live in a whole different world. They bat their eyelids and the opposite sex comes running. You were a looker (sorry but I know by the way you talk, and your posts even if you disagree). And you were 10 years younger than I am now. Big difference between 26 and 36 yrs old. I could start gaining weight and going bald anytime now, pushing middle age here...
When I say we can't live without her, I am serious. She is in my soul, so remarriage and happiness is impossible. We are like two peas in a pod.
Living is not an option if I choose otherwise, and breathing is not living imo if your soul is dead.
Those widows who live "alive and well", that's very nice when it happens. Except it's not possible for everyone imo.
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