I know it's supposed to be wrong, but it doesn't "feel" like watching a theft. Maybe if he called it theft of services and theft of the urn. Did the ashes ever really belong to anyone but the parents of the child?
http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/us/2014/03/06/dnt-parents-steal-baby-ashes.news-12.html
http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/us/2014/03/06/dnt-parents-steal-baby-ashes.news-12.html