It seems to me that we have gotten to the point that when we do not like the position of others and that position is in opposition of our own we tend to assign negative intentions to their posting their position. Example: someone accusing another of just following them around to give them a hard time. We have also lost trust in each other about being truthful about our own positions. Example: Accusing someone of saying something other than what they posted and then when given clarification holding to the accusation anyway is "no I know what you meant I can read your post it is there for all to see". In other words not accepting the clarification given. Are these the behavior patters Christians should engage in, in our conversations?