. . . links to modern articles about dating and physical intimacy (kissing, petting, and other non-actual-intercourse displays of affection) geared toward young women, but not from Gothard institutes or focus on the family. (Not because I have a bias against those groups, but because of the biases of a young lady's peers.) Links to testimonials from "sadder but wiser" folks who wish they hadn't gotten so "hot and heavy" or who have discovered maybe too late the wisdom of modesty and restraint are also welcome. Can you ladies help?