Hello all. I haven't posted in quite awhile but I have read the posts from time to time. I am a Baptist woman married to a Oneness Pentecostal. As long as religion is NOT discussed we get along OK. But lately the strain is unbearable. I have prayed for almost 15yrs. for peace in my marriage, but it looks as if neither of us is willing to change our beliefs. I believe you are saved by grace thru faith in Jesus and His blood cleanses from all sin. My husband believes you have to be baptized in Jesus' name only for remission of sins with the evidence of speaking in tongues as proof you have the Holy Ghost. My Mom passed away in 2003. Since then, my husband has made accusations that she didn't make it to heaven because she wasn't baptized in Jesus name only. A few weeks ago we were eating out (with my daughter present who is 13 yrs. old.) I have never been more humilated in my life. He seems to get me in places where I can't escape to begin his "preaching." He started talking his oneness belief loudly where anyone in hearing distance could here. And might I add not very Christlike either. He stated he tried to tell my mother the right way and now it was too late for her. He mentioned that my mom had told him that her mother was never baptized. He went on about how it was too late for both of them and that HELL WAS HOT! I tell him that he cannot judge anyone. I also told him that if he didn't be quite he could walk home! Needless to say, I lost mu appetite. It's just as bad at home. He said just the other day that he is "wearing me down" and that I WILL accept his belief. He went to a revival at his church last week and the services lasted for hours. He didn't get home until almost 1 a.m. one night. I asked him why he was late and he said that I hadn't ever been around a bunch of holiness people before worshiping the Lord. I found out later that a man had been slain in the spirit and they waited for him to come to. Is this in the bible? I know this is a long post but I had to talk to somebody. Oh yeah, before I forget. He told me that his pastor use to belong to a Methodist church and the Lord knocked him down three times and he couldn't get up. So he left the Methodist church and became a pentecostal. Is this also biblical? I need to know. I don't won't to say anything against the Holy Ghost. I am even afraid of thinking about this because my husband has me so scared that I will blaspheme the Holy Ghostor something. I do believe that God can cause people to speak in tongues but I also believe it is being misused and abused today. I could also be baptized again their way, but I would be doing it only to satisfy my husband. And my spirit won't let me do that.