If Calvinism is true, can your really blame the non-elect reprobate for their being rebellious against God? After all look at the facts of the matter: 1. God punished them for the sin of Adam by making them be born totally unable to repent even when invited by God to do so. 2. God didn't really love them (salvifically), in fact he hated them from birth (i.e. Esau). 3. God didn't grant them what they needed to be saved. 4. God predetermined they would spend an eternity being tortured in hell prior to their even being born. Can you really blame them for rebelling and hating that? Wouldn't you if you weren't chosen?