1 Tim 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. "faithful in all things." Is the thought "black and white," "yes or no," "up or down." or is this simply "general guidance."? If a deacons wife comes to only Sunday services and not Wednesday is she "faithfull in all things.?" What about if she misses Sunday evening too? thoughts?