Not sure where else to post this, and I'm not going to give any details due to it being perceived as dirty laundry, but how are you supposed to deal with people who are recently retired early but aren't aging well at all? I and several family members are being greatly stressed out due to behavior that is full of paranoid/persecutory delusions and backbiting. Everybody is out to get them so they're going to talk very badly about everyone to the point that it is highly stressing if not downright destroying relationships. It is getting out of hand and it isn't just me who is dealing with it. Being on the receiving end of a 3 hour long drunken disparaging rant was the last straw for me.