My wife left me a few weeks ago (prayer requests forum). I am still struggling with my role in the divorce. She wants a divorce and is unwilling to seek marriage counseling. I need to know my responsibility regarding the marriage, as I am having trouble spiritually. I am still feeling guilty for giving in and allowing the divorce to proceed. I just don't feel that it is good for the kids to have this prolonged. She tells me repeatedly that no matter what I do, she is going through with it. A little background. I am a relatively shy person. It takes me a while to warm up to people, but when I do we become friends forever. However, a few years ago my wife quit talking to me about anything. I kept confronting her about our issues (lack of communication), but she refused to face them. Then she expected me to be at ease with her friends. I admit I struggled. I went with her to social functions, but I knew nothing about the people I was meeting. I constantly felt out of place, like I didn't belong. She kept telling me I was anti-social, which isn't really the case. I went deeper into a shell, which ultimately caused the break-up of our marriage. Biblically, what is required of me? As far as I know (although there are rumors which I don't believe), she hasn't cheated. She also claims to be a believer. I am not going to judge her salvation, but I have my doubts based on our recent conversations. The only two basis for divorce that I know about and have been taught are cheating and non-believers trying to lead us down the wrong path. I personally don't believe either to be the case. Please help me as I am struggling with the hurt from a human perspective, but also from the spiritual side as well. I don't feel the divorce is right biblically. I keep praying, and I am still struggling with the decision she has made. TIA.