Pardon me but i'm going to lay a few facts out for you and you come up with the scripture to dispute these facts i'll listen Thank you! 1. you do NOT have to be baptized to be a Saved person. Baptism is a step of obedience ONLY. 2. You do NOT have to belong to a church in order to be saved. the reason we have churches is so that we can be each others SUPPORT system. 3. You do NOT have to jump though any hoops, special recomendations, take communion or any other insane drivel to get to heaven. CHRIST'S salvation came with no requirements, no conditions and absolutely nothing else other than FAITH IN HIM is required. It's between you and HIM. No you him and fifty other people. Do NOT let someone question your salvation. It is NONE of their business. The only person you need to worry about is YOURSELF. I'm sorry i've prayed and prayed about this and, The more I pray the more I feel nagged to post this. People should NOT be interfering with others lives. Telling them WHAT is or is NOT right. That's for the LORD to do. The LORD has better experince at chastisment and the like, and he doesn't need any help from anyone else. Now, I understand it's hard to watch a bro or sister sin. That is LIFE folkes. It's time to understand that. What you should be doing is PRAYING that they see the light. That's it. I see so much of " you shouldn't do this, or that " it annoys me. the LORD will let you know what is wrong in your life, and it will be in your heart. It shouldn't come from another SINNER. thank you and i'm sorry if my words upset anyone -waits for the explosion - God bless all who read this!