I think we have setted the fact that "non-cals" do not believe in the exhaustive sovereignty of God. It is clear that they only believe that God is going to work things out in the end- that God does not control the means other than that he knows they are going to happen and lets them- that, of course is not "control" by any definition. It is clear that they believe that God did not purpose EVERYTHING- that he only PERMITS everything. That, of course is not control by any definition. But this is not the God of the Bible. The God of the Bible is a micromanager. He controls atomic particles and subatomic particles and they move- not just how he permits- but how he has PURPOSED they should move from eternity past. And not one of them moves the width of an electron that God did not purpose from all eternity for it to move. That is the only true God. Elohim cannot be a manager who delegates. He must, by very definition, be the author and sustainer and Lord of- not just everything that IS- but everything that HAPPENS. And not just in general but so specifically that no electron can make a single orbit around the nucleus of a single atom apart from his eternal purpose. That alone can be the self-existent, Jehovah, I AM. He alone is non-contingent. EVERYTHING else that is or happens is ultimately contingent upon Him.