Hey folks I'm new to these boards and I could use some help. I have a friend who came to me wanting help with his addiction to porn. He is a believer we both accepted Christ Jesus as Lord on the same night. I know what some may be thinking and your right I can't be 100% sure he is truly saved. Except for this one issue his fruits bear those of a Christian. Anyway he came to me instead of our pastor b/c it's obviously embarrassing. He told me he doesn't watch it often he may go months without looking at it and then all of a sudden hes watching it again. I've never had to do anything like this before. I went to my pastor about it but he wants to meet with him but my buddy ain't ready for that. What do I do? I'm a little over my head here. So any advice would be appreciated.