Question for pastors: One of our core members is a lady who has been our music leader for the past 30 years. She is 79 years old and suffers from heart problems and is losing her mental faculties. Her husband died six years ago and last year she met a 75 year old man who moved in with her, sans marriage. They travel together and he has made free use of the monetary benefits she receives from her ex husband's pension. The pastor has spoken with her about the situation but she needs this man's support because of her illness. We are now at the point of dismissing her from her ministry position but it's very difficult. It seems this is all that is holding her together mentally although she continues in sin. We love her and understand her circumstances, but must follow the Lord's Word in approaching this situation. Any suggestions?