I had an experience a few weeks ago that has really bothered me. Our church was in the process of calling a new youth minister. The man we were considering was from an IFB background, but had transitioned to SBC over the last couple of years. I was calling and checking his references. One of his references was an IFB pastor he had at one point in his life. We were having a really good conversation. However, when the man found out our church was Southern Baptist he got really quiet and just said "Oh......well it has been nice talking to you, goodbye." How do you go from having a great conversation about church, ministry, education, family and then "SBC" comes up and shuts the entire conversation down?