I have a dear friend.. sister actually, who is going through a very confusing time. Her and her husband have gone to an Independent Fundamental Baptist church their entire marriage. The church is very small.. no more than 30 people or so. My friend knew everybody, and was close with everybody. Her husband was the new guy.. he wasnt as "spiritually mature" as the other guys. He didnt have fellowship. The guys never invited him out. He was just basically alone.. their marriage hit some tough times and in short they seperated for a very short while, but they have been back together for some time now. Ever since this incedent, her husband wont go to their small church. They know too much. They werent his friends to begin with. Its just not a good situation. Well, her husband want to try a different kind of church, and she is terribly confused. I am advising her to obey her husband 100%. Her old Pastor is advising her not to obey and stay at their church because her husband is not in the will of God, and she wont be helping him by going along with his godless decision. I know that all of you dont know too much of the situation, but I am of the mindset that if my the bible doesnt make acceptions about submitting and obeying unless we are dealing with sin. Can anybody agree/disagree with me. I am having such a hard time understanding how such a seemingly Godly man could advise her this way.