On my FB page, I found this post ( who is a personal friend of min) I love my Mom to the moon & back! But when I call her & she turns that call into bashing my Daddy it me off to no end! NO he wasn't perfect (who is) I cherish my fathers memory & who he was to me!! Mom is so stubborn & stuck in her ways! I can't even confront her without being accused of "Taking Sides" Uggghhhhhhh Note: He dad died several years ago. Part of the problem is that he was deeply in debt when he died, and it ended up that her mom lost their house to the bank (foreclosed) How would you counsel this woman.