Dear Baptist Board, I have a very sensitive situation and I am going through a difficult time to say the least. The great thing is that we serve a mighty God who can conquer it all. I know many may say, "Ohh, why is he putting his business here on the board", well.. I know that you all are my brothers and sisters and will give honest feedback. Let me start with explaining that my Wife is not a Christian. I wasnt one either when I came to Christ but have been one for 5 years now. I know that God will do his will in her life, in his time and not ours. Well, my Wife has had a difficult childhood, her Grandfather wasnt to kind to her and she still cries about that sometimes. Now to the problem... My Father is the best to me, I mean, I love him with all my heart. I never look at his defects and just focus on the beautiful parts. Since he moved to Puerto Rico when my daughter was 1 yr old. In the past 3 yrs, he has called my house twice. He has never called to ask how Natalia (daughter) is or anything. Well, to me thats ok... because I dont focus on that stuff, but my Wife who is an unbeliever and on top of that has trauma's about her granpa doesnt take it that well. Now my Father is in town and wants to spend time with my Daughter. I am totally up for it, but my Wife is not. He came last year and has not called since. She say's she is fed up with it and will not allow Natalia to suffer what she suffered by her Grandfather not calling or inquiring about her. The thing is that my pop's calls my other brother and often, I dont care about that, thats not what I am about... who cares if he doesnt call... I call him and thats that.. you know.. Last year I had to basically force my wife to go, not with violence but just bugging her to death about it... I am tired of doing that.. I told him last year to call more often but they havent.. I dont know what to do.. I am stuck in the middle. My Wife wants nothing to do with it... and to be honest I have been defending my father instead of her....... Should I tell my father about or will it hurt his feeling? I dont know what to do... I feel so sad... I wish we were all happy and cheerfully and stuff but its not happening. I know I am the leader of the house and If i tell my wife.. Let's Go.. she will go... but forcefully and I dont like doing that..