I realized this today. The way they think - frightens me. In the prayer section I posted a link asking for prayer for people in Boca Raton, FL where a truck ran over a bus with 25 migrant children on it. I posted the same prayer request on a secular board. Now, I 1/2 expected someone to complain about prayer - but I'm not the only Christian reading the boards and I don't listen to people who complain about prayer anyway - but.... I did NOT expect someone to tell me that they didn't think we should care about that when soldiers were dieing. As if, somehow - the war in Iraq means we should stop caring about the kids at home. This time last year I was working with a bunch of flat out CRUEL secular people who thought their life's calling was to get people fired. They did things like write a single woman up for "staying late at work," and for "complimenting clients". She would say, "My you look lovely today," and they told her that implied the person didn't ALWAYS look lovely. In the lounge they would complain she didn't dress well enough to make them feel professional. She was clean, modest. Just wore what my grandmother would have called "homespun" vs "Neiman Marcus" . They fired her, causing her to lose her home and end up in a shelter with her son. But they bragged about their compassion. They frighten me.