I was at a pastor's meeting today and the following question was posed: If someone approaches you to use your church for a wedding, and the bride and/or groom are not church members (but relations to church members), would you allow it? And more importantly, would you allow someone else to perform the service? And if your church didn't have a policy regarding this, how would you handle it? It was a good question, and a fellow pastor is faced with this situation. He's hesitant to allow it, not because of ego, but because he does not know the other pastor, and is concerned about what message might be presented from his church's pulpit. Any thoughts?