My Aunt, to come straight to the point, has caused a lot of offence with her bluntness and judgemental attitudes. Every time I go there, I get "told off" all the time, and she is constantly drawing attention (often publicly) to my sins, weaknesses and failings. She has often called me a fool. She has shared private things of mine around the dinner table. I tried pointing out to her that words are important, and that the Bible she is so fond of quoting makes it quite clear that not one of our words will be lost. She said, "Well, I don't keep any record of what I say, so you will just have to make of my words what you will." She's forgiven, therefore her words are forgotten. But not by me, or others whom she has hurt and offended. How can that be a Christian attitude?