OK, so one of my supervisors came to me today and said that my paraprofessional's husband wanted to come and take her out for a quick birthday lunch on her lunch break. She asked if that would be OK and I said of course it's OK!! So just the very moment as we are having that discussion, my para walks in and I look at her and wave my hand with smile and say, "Yes, go ahead! That's fine! Just go - no problem!" And I try to shoo her out the door. My administrator nudged me and whispered out of the side of her mouth, "It's a surprise - she doesn't know." My para is just standing there looking at me like I have three heads. How in the WORLD was I supposed to back that train up? All I could do was to flusteringly ramble as I looked back and forth between the two of them, "Well, what I am talking about? I don't know - I thought you were someone else. Oh,my. I'm crazy! What?" My para laughs said, "I don't know what you are talking about." All I could say was, "I don't either." Anyway - he came, she was surprised, and - whew! - I've got to learn to keep my trap shut!