Hello, I am struggling with trying to understand the will of God. I have a brother whom I love with all my heart. He is in his last year of college, completely sold out for Jesus, a young man with a tender heart. I will call him Mike. Mike is also a VERY VERY good-looking young man. I am not saying this because I am his sister. He really is. He has had women of all ages pursue him hard. Mike has never given these women a second look. He was waiting for Gods perfect timing. Mike even belives he may be being called into ministry of some sort. Mike has also kept himself pure. This may be hard to believe but he really has. He wanted to honor God with his body and also remain pure for his wedding night. Here is why I am struggling. There was a women I will call Pam that has a 4 year old daughter that pursed Mike the hardest. She has never been married and is a new Christian. Her life has been tough and she has made many wrong choices. She is also about 5 years older than my brother. In the beginning she was persistant and really pushing hard to be with my brother. He said he could never be interested. She was pretty obvious. Now Pam is a Christian and I do like her. Her past sins are forgiven. Recently she bought my brother a Bible and he was very moved. And right after that my brother began to date her. He kept the fact hidden at first. He struggled terribly but feels God has changed his heart on how he feels about this women. I guess I just don't understand this. He was so against this in the beginning and even went through a lot of hard times because of the way this women pursued him but now God changed his heart??? She has never been married so he won't be enter a marriage with a divorced women. Again this women is sweet and I like her but I just don't understand the will of God. My brother had kept himself pure through temptaion after temptaion. I can tell you this, my brother would not date this women without the intention of marraige, especially since she has a child. He is that kind of man. Can I hear your thoughts please and please pray for me that I will just trust God in this matter.