Some of the members of the local baptist church in my town are upset with someone that they sent on a mission trip to China. The church got together a couple of thousand dollars and sent the college age son of one of their members to China for two years to teach English, and to evangelize secretly. While he was there, he met an American girl who was also on the same mission. At the end of the two years they returned home and married. They are living about 45 minutes drive from the baptist church that sent him on the mission and are attending a baptist church closer to where they now live. Some memebers of the church that sent him to China are upset that he doesn't come to their church anymore and think that he is ungrateful for the money they spent to send him to China. Are they being unrealistic? Is this sort of thing uncommon? Any insights?