Moe would slap Curly and he'd get up saying..., "I Can't See. I Can't See". Moe would then, with a tone of genuine concern ask..., "What's the matter? Why can't you see...?" at which time Curly would respond with, "...cause I got my eyes closed." Moe would then slap him again. I used to work with a guy who felt it necessary to walk the isle for Salvation a couple of times a month. He was of the, Lose Your Salvation Crowd. Okay, good for him. Like Curly..., He Can't See..., as I see. I ran across another man years ago that told me if I didn't "Receive the Full Gospel" I'd not make it to heaven. Okay, good for him. Like Curly..., He Can't See..., as I see. To me, the Full Gospel is contained in I Corinthians 15: 3 & 4. Christ died, was buried and rose again on the 3rd day. That's how I "see it" an I ain't changing! Each and every individual on planet earth has been influenced one way or another which is why we are where we are today. As it is with finger prints all of us are uniquely different. We are/have all been emotionally conditioned differently. What works for you won't necessarily work for me..., so that makes me wrong..., as you "see it" but doesn't make it a fact. As such, you can tell people but you can't tell 'em much. You can insist that another is "wrong" completely ignoring "your wrongs". What then makes "you" right and "me" wrong based on what I need based on my emotional conditioning. Some people need to charge ahead as a bull in a China Shop. Another needs to make peace. Another needs friendship. Another needs emotional support. Another needs to feel important and appreciated..., and another might simply need to reach out. I know of a woman that had a stroke. She doesn't get out much except via computer. She tells of almost daily being attacked, the result of her Christian Views coming from other so-called Christians. Bottom line is..., just because you don't "see it" as they "see it" does indicate the light has changed to green, and you can charge through the intersection. Why not take the time and have the patience to understand where the other one is coming from and then offer up what "you see" in a sane and reasonable fashion? ...sounds to me like it might work.