There is someone in our church who counts the money on Sunday morning, and has started telling folks that we dont tithe. (This is untrue - I just dont give HER the check sometimes b/c I know she is nosey.) It has gotten back to me, and I am seriously thinking of telling her how disappointed I am that someone is telling these untruths. (I know its her, couldnt be anyone else, but I dont want to accuse). Would you confront?