Yes, this happens, but what is your question? Is it why do they resist? I don't understand what you are asking.
Yes, belief is how we have life through His name. But who can believe? The enemy of God? Or those to whom God has given his Grace?
You would have to ask "some Calvinists." We can't know who is elect and who is not. We are commanded to preach the gospel to everyone. God will know His own.
Because after we are saved we are bound to the Law of New Life in Christ.
"We can't know who is elect and who is not."
We know who is elect or not, scripture says its OBVIOUS. Even non-believers can know if your elect or not.
1 John 3
10By this the children of God and the children of the devil are obvious: anyone who does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor the one who does not love his brother.
John 13
34“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.
35“By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”
1 john 4
7Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God.
8The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.
Now if your just self-proclaimed elect or a pretty good guess so or that rock bottom holy spirit came........ where your certainly elect and unsure about other folks, There is certain authority you are responsible for.
If you had a car and a license few miles away from food, your not going decide well I'm not going to use the car and starve to death. Or like Parable of the talents not going to use what you claim to have.
Jesus Christ sends you in same manner God the Father sent him.
John 20
21So Jesus said to them again, “Peace
be with you; as the Father has sent Me, I also send you.”
22And when He had said this, He breathed on them and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit.
23“If you forgive the sins of any,
their sins have been forgiven them; if you retain the
sins of any, they have been retained.”
Romans 8
15For you have not received a spirit of slavery leading to fear again, but you have received a spirit of adoption as sons by which we cry out, “Abba! Father!”
16The Spirit Himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God,
17and if children, heirs also, heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, if indeed we suffer with
Him so that we may also be glorified with
Him.
If someone is not elect just let me know and I'll write you a receipt. Now if you don't think I got the authority to do that......well then you do it, You got the car and the license.