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Will the boys really mind?

HankD

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No, they probably wouldn't - well that depends doesn't it.

BTW, I understand that looking, staring, or whatever for more than 3 seconds at another person can be construed as gawking or even sexual harassment.
Which it probably would be for what would be going for a girl in a boys locker room.

One easy technique is the three-second rule. (It has nothing to do with either driving or basketball.) It’s clear enough: look at whatever you want to look at for three seconds before you should probably shift your gaze away. Few women are going to feel as if you’re undressing them with your eyes if your glance lasts so short a time. If you need to count in your head “one, one thousand, two, one thousand, three, one thousand,” do it. And wait at least three seconds before looking again.

https://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/how-to-stare-at-women/

OK so there is an element of humor in all this (which I personally admit) however there is also an element of antibiblical seriousness:
And its not so much nakedness.

Unisex. The essence of which is of antichrist (IMO).
 

Salty

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Hank - you bring up a good point - I wonder if this girl will be reporting any of the boy
for sexual harassment. ?
 

Scarlett O.

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Yes, the boys will be uncomfortable, IF their locker room is one with open stalls, urinals, and showers. It's a shame this kind of thing happens. It makes me angry.

But here is this to consider. She will be highly outnumbered. There will be far more of the boys looking at her out of curiosity....of a lot of things. Normal curiosity and curiosity of how she might have changed.

I don't know why she won't be embarrassed. Most teenagers, male or female, transgender or not, have "issues" with their bodies and have normal sensitivities.

I don't even like it that boys have open stalls and showers anyway.
 

Reynolds

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In my high school days, I would have loved having naked women in our locker room. (Just being honest.) I can't imagine filing a lawsuit to keep women out of the men's locker room.
 

Reynolds

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Yes, the boys will be uncomfortable, IF their locker room is one with open stalls, urinals, and showers. It's a shame this kind of thing happens. It makes me angry.

But here is this to consider. She will be highly outnumbered. There will be far more of the boys looking at her out of curiosity....of a lot of things. Normal curiosity and curiosity of how she might have changed.

I don't know why she won't be embarrassed. Most teenagers, male or female, transgender or not, have "issues" with their bodies and have normal sensitivities.

I don't even like it that boys have open stalls and showers anyway.
I never minded the open showers. SNIP
 
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HankD

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you should have seen the latrines in the old World War II billets!
Hmm, interesting point. I wonder what is the military policy today and is it going to change to accommodate shared "gender" barracks and latrines?
 
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