Jon, you are wrong. No apologies needed to you. Both you and Van have thoughts on the Bible that are not in line with any Reformed thinking and to my knowledge not in line with any Baptist thinking. You are at odds. No apologies needed in stating this.Nice try (actually, a foolish reply as Scripture presents the lost in their fallen state as seeking God and putting their faith in Christ).
The difference is whether God draws these lost men, whether the Spirit is working in their lives.
You call @Van a heretic by equating his statement to semi-Pelagianism. But @Van has stayed that these lost do not come to God apart from the Spirit.
You assume these lost are regenerated before believing, but rejecting that is not semi-Pelagianism.
You owe @Van and me sn apology. For my part, keep it. It's your character at stake. And I forgive you.
Just because you disagree, Martin has no need to apologize because your feelings are hurt.