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Fabulous Response To Offended Student(s)

Discussion in 'General Baptist Discussions' started by HAMel, Dec 1, 2015.

  1. HAMel

    HAMel Well-Known Member
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    Nov 15, 2009
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    Dr. Everett Piper, President

    Oklahoma Wesleyan University

    This past week, I actually had a student come forward after a university chapel service and complain because he felt “victimized” by a sermon on the topic of 1 Corinthians 13. It appears that this young scholar felt offended because a homily on love made him feel bad for not showing love! In his mind, the speaker was wrong for making him, and his peers, feel uncomfortable.

    I’m not making this up. Our culture has actually taught our kids to be this self-absorbed and narcissistic! Any time their feelings are hurt, they are the victims! Anyone who dares challenge them and, thus, makes them “feel bad” about themselves, is a “hater,” a “bigot,” an “oppressor,” and a “victimizer.”

    I have a message for this young man and all others who care to listen. That feeling of discomfort you have after listening to a sermon is called a conscience! An altar call is supposed to make you feel bad! It is supposed to make you feel guilty! The goal of many a good sermon is to get you to confess your sins—not coddle you in your selfishness. The primary objective of the Church and the Christian faith is your confession, not your self-actualization!

    So here’s my advice:

    If you want the chaplain to tell you you’re a victim rather than tell you that you need virtue, this may not be the university you’re looking for. If you want to complain about a sermon that makes you feel less than loving for not showing love, this might be the wrong place.

    If you’re more interested in playing the “hater” card than you are in confessing your own hate; if you want to arrogantly lecture, rather than humbly learn; if you don’t want to feel guilt in your soul when you are guilty of sin; if you want to be enabled rather than confronted, there are many universities across the land (in Missouri and elsewhere) that will give you exactly what you want, but Oklahoma Wesleyan isn’t one of them.

    At OKWU, we teach you to be selfless rather than self-centered. We are more interested in you practicing personal forgiveness than political revenge. We want you to model interpersonal reconciliation rather than foment personal conflict. We believe the content of your character is more important than the color of your skin. We don’t believe that you have been victimized every time you feel guilty and we don’t issue “trigger warnings” before altar calls.

    Oklahoma Wesleyan is not a “safe place”, but rather, a place to learn: to learn that life isn’t about you, but about others; that the bad feeling you have while listening to a sermon is called guilt; that the way to address it is to repent of everything that’s wrong with you rather than blame others for everything that’s wrong with them. This is a place where you will quickly learn that you need to grow up!

    This is not a day care. This is a university!

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  2. HeDied4U

    HeDied4U Active Member
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    If that little snowflake felt victimized by the contents of a sermon, then I bet he really felt victimized for being called out in such a manner as in this letter. Probably went running to his nearest "safe space" and curled up in the fetal position and cried his eyes out.
  3. Kevin

    Kevin Active Member

    Aug 13, 2010
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    I wonder if the little victim has hired his lawyer yet.

    To bad we can't hear the sermon that upset him.
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  4. Sue-Ellen

    Sue-Ellen Active Member

    Oct 6, 2015
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    I would also be interested in hearing the sermon that caused him to be so uncomfortable. This was a well written letter to the so called "victim". I bet he is really feeling uncomfortable now.
  5. djordjem87

    djordjem87 New Member

    Dec 1, 2015
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    I think this a little bit over the top. I would like to hear the sermon as well as other people here. I meant the offended student went over the top not the teacher. The letter was spot on and i think that people need to understand that we are not the same and that eventually, somewhere and someone could offend us even by accident. No need to cry about it. It is part of growing up.