Because when this old lady made a left into our Miata, it was because she didn't see us behind the truck and forgot to look again. I felt sorry for her, but we were happy to be compensated by her insurance.Alcott said:Why do you include the word "necessarily?"
But when some jerk knocked the rear of my car so hard it spun around and then yelled at me that I hit his car before zooming off, I would have been happy to had his car damaged for revenge.
I said "necessarily" because I know sometimes I have vengeful thoughts, although I try not to.
No, I want to be compensated, made right, but I doesn't really matter to me if it is the offender or the insurance company that pays - or even the victim's compensation board.A said:Anyway, you want the offender to pay for it, no matter what means he/she has to pay for it, while not necessarily wanting his/her car also to be wrecked.
No, I did not admit to wanting greater than the value of my loss - you seem to be reading your own feelings into my statements. It is not payback time; it's getting on with my life.A said:This type of revenge has become the more common type because the avenger gets something useful or valuable from the avengee, instead of a bloody eyeball to bounce around. Regardless, you have admitted you want equal to or greater than the value of your loss-- it's payback time!
That scenario is not an eye for an eye but a life and an eye for an eye.A said:Incidentally, if someone attacked you and plunged a sharp instrument into your eye, causing you to lose sight in that eye, and you defended yourself by taking away that sharp instrument and stabbing the attacker, who died [though you did not intend that], would you ask for a transplant of that person's eyeball-- a medically possible operation now-- in order to have the sight that was cost by the same person? It certainly seems as reasonable as wanting 'compensation' for your wrecked car.
Would I want the dead man's eye? I honestly don't know.
Suppose he weren't dead - would you want the court to compel him to give you his eye in order to restore your sight? That would be an eye for an eye.