I made a mistake joining a church where I do not agree in most areas. I am involved in men's discipleship at another church 2 days a week, however due to my family nature cannot attend that church on Sundays. Would a elder board or a pastor approve me as a member given that I cannot attend? Elders at the church do understand my family situation and have themselves advised me to keep the peace and not to go to a different church as my wife. I have never done anything like this before so I am not sure if it would work but if it did it would make me happy as I no longer would be under the authority of an IFB church. IFB churches and 9 Marks Churches are very differnt so they would not consider one another a church of like faith and practice. Thanks..