This was posted in a thread of mine elsewhere yesterday ...
I know how this sounds but gonna say it anyway.
I am an Expert on how the word baptism was used in the New Testament.
I researched this subject over 20 years ago (objectively - the only research that counts)
and was shocked to learn that Jesus never commanded a watery baptism for the church age.
I ended up convincing a Greek Scholar and a Pastor of one of the Largest churches in his State.
Both of whom, came out swinging at first to defend their programmed beliefs on this subject.
The view was: "If commanded by Jesus it must be important for us to do it"!
Indeed it would be if there was such a command since a command is by definition a "necessary prescription"!
Old School Catholics claim it's necessary, while Protestants compromise and say "It's a "should" not a must.
Both make no sense!
There isn't a drop of water mentioned in the Great Commission accounts (last chapters of Matt, Mark & Luke).
Matt. & Mark have been made to look like a watery command because of how the RCC manipulated the text by saying "baptism is baptism" and means in water. Your thread proves this is an error put out by ax grinders to take the Spirituality out of scripture and replace it with physical rituals which can never bring an inward change in a person.
Anyway back to the text. Peter's command in Acts 10 is of his opinion.
For years I couldn't figure out why Peter went against Jesus' Acts 1:5 …
"John truly baptized with WATER but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days hence".
Jewish baptism was in water (physical) but the baptism for the church was to be inward/spiritual according to Jesus.
Took me 2 years to realize that the same verse of Jesus that came back to mind time and again (acts 1:5) was also recalled to Peter's mind and stated in Acts 11:16. This recalling is no doubt a correction from the Holy Spirit.
Peter is not the first infallible Pope. For years people were taught by the RCC that he was so they didn't challenge his command for the gentiles to be water baptized, something they obviously didn't need since they had already been saved. Jews got water baptized for repentance which comes b4 salvation not after it.
What I also find shocking about Christianity is the fact that Scholar after Scholar points to 1 cor. 1 and basically says
"He Paul is shown to water baptize there so that is proof of the importance of watery baptism"!
How can anyone ignore "I thank God that I only baptized a FEW"?
and also ignore "Christ sent me not to baptize but to preach the gospel"?
All they see is that Paul baptized in water? Wow!!!! Is it any wonder that there is so much confusion
on Christian Forums and in the World about Scripture, etc.?
In closing: You are right on, by pointing out how important spiritual baptism is in Acts 10 & 11.
The Jewish Converts in Jerusalem weren't convinced by Peter's watery command
(He purposely said nothing about it in Acts 11 when talking to them) Check it out!
There was no need to since he took correction from the Holy Spirit on which baptism was important.
The same one that convinced the Jewish Converts that these Gentiles were indeed no part of the Church age.
Notice that he researched this subject for 20 years objectively, i.e. with no biases. Praise the Lord.
But there is a very serious problem with this dude ...
he didn't also provide his salvation testimony, so everything he has testified to must be considered as bogus!
"Tis a shame! Oh, well ... let's move on and crucify the next dude who shows up who doesn't agree with us.
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The baptism in Matthew 28:19 is the kind that one man administers to another man- READ IT! The administrator is "ye" and the subject is "them" - "Go ye...baptizing them...teaching them."
The very same subject that teaches "them" is the very same subject that baptizes "them."