When I first came across this thread, I was chomping at the bit to give a piece of my mind.
Baptists are divisive because, despite the claim that they are free of the tradition found in the Roman Catholic Church, the reality is that they are chock full of their own! I think this is the most obvious reason as to why we see the First Baptist Church and the Second Baptist Church across the street. It's also the reason why it was Baptists who were responsible for forming many of the prominent cults we see today that originated during the restoration movement.
There are some good genuine Baptist preachers out there who may be ignorant about their own traditions, but there are far too many out there who are WILLFULLY DECEPTIVE and lead others astray. So let's not all pretend like it is the Baptists who represent true north.
Probably the reason is that you are not going to convince Baptists or practically any other religious group to abandon their building and meet in the desert.
Or skip assembling of the church together at an established meeting place where anyone may find them, in exchange for a private coffee shop conversation with a few buddies.
There are legitimate reasons for having designated places of worship without needing to be called deceptive, or worshippers of buildings, or starters of cults.
It is my opinion that you are not actually a Baptist as you say, but have only at some point attended a Baptist church. Your beliefs about church are more hippie than Baptist.
I think the reason why Baptists are so
divisive divided is that they actually believe something that they feel is worth defending. Occasionally, we may get off on a tangent and defend preferences, but I think that that is because they are strictly held convictions and not mere theories on the ironing board.