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It's also a fact that stroking your pet cat or dog affects the heart rate and lowers the blood pressure.

I have often prayed to God while petting my cat or dog. I didn't find it distracting at all.

I also don't find it distracting to hold my Christian sister or brother's hand while praying. If that makes you uncomfortable, then you shouldn't do it. But you should not judge others for it. That's when you step over the line from Christian liberty to judgmental Pharisee.

 

As I expected, it was women who would first jump to tiny's defense.

 

Sheesh, talk about stereotyping. And mis-defining 'sensitivity'.

 

Sheesh, talk about stereotyping...

 

You don't understand sexuality if you think that one's attraction to another is based only on the outward appearance.

Understand that not only is deviant sex condemned in the Scriptures, but feminine, or soft, tendencies in men, 1 Cor. 6:9.

 

Aaron, are you sensitive?

 

Angry and insensitive I think would be more fitting. I never realized the anger that extreme fundamentalism arouses in its participants. Although I can imagine the frustration that must be associated with trying to meet the standards and with trying to force everyone else into their mold.

 

Insensitivity would be the opposite of sensitivity and would mean that you are a jerk, male or female.

Sensitivity simply means you take the feelings of others into consideration and act accordingly.


So you can either be sensitive (a considerate person).

Or you can be insensitive and be a jerk.


Sensitivity is not just a feminine quality. I think Jesus was extremely sensitive to the needs of others and there was nothing feminine about Him.

 

Only on the Baptist board does a thread concerning men and women holding hands during worship to our great God end up insinuating homosexuality between the children of God. Aaron, I think you need to be careful when you insinuate such things. I know you enjoy making outrageous postings to get attention, and often you have excellent input and insight. But, this time you are pushing the envelop too far.

I attend a mens only Sunday school class composed of mostly elderly men. In fact, at 58 years old I am the youngest member by at least 10 years. We have a wonderful teacher, and I wouldn't trade classes with anyone. At the end of our class we all stand and form a prayer circle and one man closes in prayer. For anyone to even remotely suggest deviant behavior connected with this act of worship is akin to blasphemy! A couple of you posters need to be careful in your assumptions concerning acts of worship and fellowship among God's people!

 

You know me better than that.

 

I insinuated no such thing. There is, however, an effeminacy in the church that needs to be addressed. Proper decorum in worship means that gender differences are observed. The compulsory requirement in some churches to join hands or engage in other forms of softness are neither spiritual nor Scriptural.

(When the guy in the pulpit says, "Let's all join hands," then it's compulsory.)

 

Read Romans 14 this a.m.

Very applicable.

Hmmm...

Maybe being sensitive isn't so unscriptural after all.

 

Sorry, some cannot tell the difference between a bible mandate and a creature preference. Why would any Christian try to suggest what you did is beyond Christian charity in your quote before. The laying on of hands is not the same thing; one is towards the other and from a presbytery to show approval to the one receiving. The other, holding hands, is a joint action from one to another and back. Not quite the same is it?

 

I haven't read his post yet, bet you all don't hold hands either

 

If you want to show affection to your cat that is your business, but when you call others a pharisee it gets reported. I won't waste my time reporting it because I don't want to be seen as being so childish

 

:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:

Am I the only one who finds this humorous?

 

I thot it was funny in a weird kind of way.

 

Wow... this thread is sooo funny.. we have "men" afraid that if they hold each other hands in prayer they are not manly~!....

Talk about an inferiority complex!

Come on guys... if you lose your manly feeling by holding a man's hand while praying.. maybe you didn't have it to begin with!

How many here see that the same bunch of men that is afraid of becoming gay if they hold another man's hand is the same bunch that thinks a woman's place is at home, barefoot and pregnant?

I say these men are sissies!... they are not secure enough in their manhood to touch another man's hand.. and at the same time are scared of the women becoming equal to them...

And this time I am not trying to be extreme...

IF You are afraid of women so much you have to "keep them in their place"... and you don't feel like a man while holding another man's hand while praying...

YOU ARE A SISSY!....

lolololololol

Grow up and get some guts!