Drag shows are highly sexual.
I'm sure that some are, but that's not necessarily the norm.
Your statement to the contrary is not ignorance, since you are an expert in drag and trans, so it must be deliberate deception.
I have not claimed to be an expert. You are simply making that up.
Do you believe it is appropriate for a five year old to attend a drag show?
Parents make that decision, not me. But if I were a parent, I don't think I would let a child attend. I don't like costume shows at all and I have no interest in drag or drag culture. But as an elementary school kid of 7-years-old, I our town had a festival celebrating 75 years of existence and one of the events was a parody of a beauty pageant where some well known male figures in town competed in women's clothing to win the pageant title. The winner happened to be my elementary PE coach. It was silly and funny and didn't sexually "groom" anyone, but it was clearly a drag show. My parents didn't have any concerns, and I think they were correct in their decision.
Do you believe your friend that is “transitioning to she” is mentally ill?
I KNOW he is mentally ill, but the gender dysphoria part of the equation is the least of my concerns. He is dealing with massive trauma that is affecting his life in many other ways.
Do you believe your friend will be better off getting counseling to accept the realty of their biological gender...
I doubt that's the focus of his therapy. Gender dysphoria may only be a symptom of other issues. Beyond that, he has some physical sexual abnormalities that likely affect his endocrine system, so there may also be a biological root to his gender dysphoria.
...or getting surgery to make him appear to be a woman?
I am opposed to surgery for him, but it is not my choice. Moreover, a person considering sex change surgery has to go through quite of bit of psychological and psychiatric evaluation before it is recommended. I don't think he would qualify.
BTW, I don’t need a lecture on following Christ from someone supporting trans ideology in kindergarten.
You need to tell that person, not me.
But you do need to hear what Jesus has to say about telling the truth. You will be held accountable for every word.