This would be directly related to the comments you have made in this discussion.
Regarding point number one, until you can supply any Biblical support for this claim, it is Unscriptural.
Uh, yeah, okay................what?
This is patently hilarious. [Once again, you do not capitalize "Word."] It was YOU that said: "No divorce, no remarriage. Remarriage after divorce is adultery in every circumstance." This has already been proven to be Unscriptural, whether or not you acknowledge that fact.
Questions about divorce
Discussion in '2004 Archive' started by KimS, Mar 11, 2004.
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Dear Baptist in Richmond,
I am doing great today, thanks. I hope you are blessed in the Lord today as well.
I have gone back through all the posts in this topic. I cannot find this quote anywhere except in the post just above my own and in my post.
Nevertheless, it is something I 'think' I remember reading and is also a common plea by those on the other side of this issue.
So, my post reply stands. If you felt as if I was making a direct remark related to something you posted then please give me a link to that post because I cannot find it.
I just wanted to point out the implication according to that quote is that anyone believing as I have expressed and others to believe do not pretend to be in a position to deny eternal life from anyone with reason for hope and interest in the work of redemption fulfilled by Christ.
The difference of the issue lays not in the eternal position but in the service of the ministry, and as deacon especially as either of these I view as a position called to by the Holy Spirit. In my own understanding I make the implication to extend to lay teachers as well because they would also be recognized in scripture as having an unction from the same Spirit.
This, imho, makes the Word of God appear contradictory to itself. I am satisfied this is not so regardless of what man may attempt to bring to bear upon this subject from life experiences.
I have also said and humbly submit myself to the Sovereignty of God that were this situation be brought to my own home, I would follow my conscience as to the true teaching of scripture and remove myself from any form of teaching or preaching, be it as an ordained minister of the Word or as a lay member.
By Grace Alone,
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2. A divorced man can fulfill the function of preacher (just not pastor), missionary, administrator, S.S. teacher, trustee, etc.
Only pastor and deacon are restricted.
3. I know many divorced people. For you to imply that I hate them or look down upon them is mindless. You obviously don't have a clue about pastoral love toward others.
4. I stand by my statement.
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B in R said:
Now as far as you disagreeing with me, remember the custom of the day when this was said. Marriages were pre-arranged and actually a couple was "married" during the engagement period. If the groom found out during this period or even after that period, that his bride had lost her virginity, then he could write a Bill of Divorcement for fornication. This was the only time. Remember, this is what Joseph was going to do with Mary, until the Lord told him not to do so.
I still do not understand why Bro. Bob, thinks this scriptural guidance is "sad". I guess that will just have to be a mystery to me. I see nothing "sad" about God's mercy. Thank God for it. -
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Additionally, I disagree with the last statement. The Word does not mention a lay member, only pastor and deacon. The term “lay member” is very broad. Be very careful not to add to the Message. -
Dear Baptist In Richmond,
What did you mean by the use of the word "revoke"?
I have read your post, and will take your advice in consideration concerning the last statement about lay members. You are correct there is no plain statement to that effect nor to the effect implying that position.
But, I am honestly wondering what is meant by 'REVOKE'.
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Ah, you are online now! In that case, I hope all is well with you on this EVENING that the Lord has made!!!!
By "revoke," I am referring to the notion that a husband can divorce his bride for something that was done prior to the marital vows they have taken. I rejoice that God does not revoke the Grace that saves me based upon something I did prior to my own personal conversion. Someone made the statement that divorce can occur for past actions, but not present actions.
Hope this post finds you well!!
"Baptist on a business trip in Allentown, PA" -
All I can say is that it is a pending LEGAL matter involving our oldest son and alligations from the public school system. The state child welfare agency has already had their way with us (any less desirable immaiges implied) and slapped their seal of approval on our family saying we are not as bad as they thought and have since closed the case. Now the county prosecutor has filed felony charges that prevent me from being with ANY child under 17 and this naturally means I cannot be with my own children. Thanks for the prayers, some days we need it so bad it hurts. My wife and I talk on the phone all the time and date at every chance, which is extra fun because what we wanted to do 12 years ago when dating and could not, now we can. -
Dear Brother,
I will remember you in my prayers. May God Bless you.
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If it is one man for one woman for one lifetime, then did Israel have any moral kings?
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Well les see here piny baptist, ahm from Oklahoma so you know we are a little slow ya know........... but maybe thats what the bible says........ ya'll can add wives if ya want..... but dis ignorant person will stick wif muh wife of 18 years thank ya. But in reality the truth is that the translation from Greek to our language is 'a one woman man'. By language i'm speaking of english not 'okie'. May His grace and peace be upon you. Tex
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Did God give Hagar to Abraham, or did Sarah?
Bro. Dallas -
Actually jshurley04 and pinoybaptist, God never intended man to have more than on wife, but God was merciful in their lives also.
1Cr 7:2 Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh
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From onelook.com:
Fornication is defined as:
1. voluntary sexual intercourse between persons not married to each other
2. extramarital sex that willfully and maliciously interferes with marriage relations
Also on onelook.com: Fornication refers disapprovingly to any sexual activity outside of the confines of marriage, including masturbation, pre-marital sex and adultery.
Now that adulterers are not punished by stoning, I think it is very clear that adultery, as a type of fornication, is grounds for divorce. How can a divorce be allowable for an act done prior to the marriage and not for an act done after the vows are exchanged before God?
I don't disagree with your belief; however, one cannot control the philandering of an unfaithful spouse.
Additionally, divorce does not mean that the other party is not forgiven. A very good friend of mine had a wife that was unfaithful, and he divorced her. He has forgiven her, and told her that "all is forgiven." But the bond of marriage was broken, one that cannot always be retrieved. That is a direct result of our sinful nature, and I believe that is why Jesus gave a specific exclusion for fornication. As adultery is indeed a form of fornication, it is allowable grounds for a divorce. -
Okay, I have to spell it out for you. I can see you are very well learned on this subject.
You said or asked the following:
1. Again, this is patently absurd. I couldn't help but notice that you still offer no Scripture.
2. This is pathetic. Your contumely stands on its own. Show me how your responses exhibit "pastoral love toward others."
3. Again, I notice that you provide no Scripture to prove your statement.
4. I already have given you several, regardless of whether or not you acknowledge it.
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This is my response
1. Deut. 24, Matt. 5 & 19, Mark 10, Luke 16, Romans 7, 1 Cor. 7, etc. Is that enough or do you require more?
2. I love the truth. The truth is the only thing that will change people's minds. As long as they conform their minds to sloppy emotionalism and worldly attitudes regarding marriage, they will be stuck in immaturity (at least on this issue).
Pastoral love is not warm fuzziness. Pastoral love includes rebuking, correcting, instructing, etc.
What do you know about pastoral love anyway? Are you one?
3. See no. 1.
4. You are obviously crying out for attention and help, so I will help you.
When someone asks a direct question, and you answer by saying you already said something, perhaps he wants you to specifically address the issue.
So, what text does my position violate. (hint - actually give a verse).
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