Does one require a scripture mandate to do the right thing?
Doesn't common sense dictate he should be humble, and step down?
What are your thoughts regarding Charles Stanley's divorce (in 2000)?
Discussion in 'General Baptist Discussions' started by alexander284, Jan 7, 2020.
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alexander284 Well-Known Member
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I don't think its a case of "decency" but AGAIN if it were me I would seek other avenues of servitude knowing there may be none that would glorify GOD.
Or he could glorify GOD by suffering in silence for the injustice of abandonment (if indeed that is the case) WITH A MINISTRY OF PRAYER. -
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Scarlett O. ModeratorModerator
He never remarried.
You know, the scriptural law when King David was around was that death was the consequence for adultery.
David committed adultery, but didn't pay the consequence of the law. Yes, I know his baby died, but that isn't what the law called for. God continued to use David for his purposes despite David's moral collapse.
This is 20 years ago. He tried to step down, but the church didn't want it. It caused a split in the church and many left.
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George Antonios Well-Known Member
Ah yes, divorce, the #1 Pharisee-attracting topic.
There are 3 justifications for divorce: Death, Defilement, Desertion (1Co.7).
You can remarry after any of those 3. Yes, even the Pharisees can.
Aside from those 3 (like "irreconcilable differences") you can't.
God left David as king over Israel after murder and adultery, under the law no less, and then chose David's second son (Solomon) of the adulteress wife as heir to the kingdom and figure of Jesus Christ.
Besides, as @Scarlett O. has said "that's not of my business".
Mercy, bringing up a man's tragedy out in public 20 years later...
Lastly, before we blast divorced preachers, keep in mind that our God and Saviour is divorced himself:
Jeremiah 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.
Would you like him to step off the throne now that he has failed to live-up to your view of the qualifications of a shepherd? I trow not. -
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alexander284 Well-Known Member
Thank all for your input.
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I have no opinion, as I don't know the circumstances of the divorce.
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Does anyone commenting know the real issues that were involved?
Charles was an unwilling participant in his wife’s divorce. Charles did literally everything he could to reconcile with her. Yes, Charles said he would resign if it went forward. Yes, the church deacons, trustees, members, pastor friends, even Independent Fundamental Baptist friends begged, implored, prayed... that he would reconsider. He took time away from the pulpit to fast and pray. And finally he believes God spoke to him and told him to Scripturally continue his ministry.
People are allowed to change their minds. God changed his mind once if you recall. Sometimes we say things during horrible times of stress.
Charles has never dated and never remarried. He has always been the husband of one,wife. And after careful investigation many Godly men were persuaded his house was in order. It was his wife who was unruly.
You do not have to like, listen to or even respect Charles. But please refrain from speaking much publicly about that which you have so little first hand information about. It is dangerously akin to gossip. -
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Yes, Hank, God, who know all the facts, all the hearts, and all the pure meaning of the Biblical teaching will surely judge. At that time, of course, all saved individuals will be covered by the Blood, justified by their faith, and stand Righteous before him. They will give an account at BEMA. Then enter that Blessed Hope!
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