I do think you need to look into the mirror, and see that your responses towards various persons have been down right mean, and argumentative, without any patience, meekness, and lowliness of mind, Love, and sincerity.
So unless you deal with those issues yourself, how can you accuse other's of the same fruit you portray?
"He who is without sin, cast the first stone".
Hypocrisy is not a fruit of the Spirit, but of the carnal flesh.