Baptism with the Holy Spirit is essential for salvation & John said Jesus would baptise with the Holy Spirit in contrast to his water baptism. So should we practice a mode of baptism that teaches HS baptism -
born from above? John 3. Note that Cornelius & household were baptised with the Holy Spirit "poured out on them."
I was "baptised" as a baby - which I do not recognise as baptism, & baptised by immersion as a believer when I was converted at 18. We all agree that baptism of believers is the Biblical practice, but is the
mode of baptism clearly taught in Scripture, & does it matter?
At Pentecost, Peter preached -
38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. 39 For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call. 40 And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward generation.
Baptism must be -
preceded by repentance;
in the name of Jesus;
for the remission/forgiveness of sins;
and associated with the gift of the Holy Spirit.
That excludes the unrepentant, including young children who can show no indication of repentance,
BUT
as proselyte families including young children were received into Israel by faith & circumcision the case can be made for family baptism. In particular I would be prepared to baptise the family of a e.g. a converted Muslim in order to "claim" the whole family for Christ, so that they would be be recognised as "Christian" by the rather than left to be claimed as Muslim by the community, & possibly abducted from their parents. They would be baptised as believers when they came to faith.
Can we see a case for sprinkling or pouring from Scripture?
Heb. 9:10 ..... 10 which stood only in meats and drinks, and divers washings (baptisms), and carnal ordinances, imposed on them until the time of reformation.
"Washings" is the
Gk STRONGS NT 909: βαπτισμός which occurs 4 times, 3 times translated "washing" & once transliterated "baptisms" in the KJV.
The examples of "various baptisms" that follow in Heb. 9 are sprinklings, contrasted with the sacrifice of Christ. (Numbers 19 & Exo. 24.)
Heb. 9:13 For if the blood of bulls and of goats, and the ashes of an heifer sprinkling the unclean, sanctifieth to the purifying of the flesh: 14 how much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God, purge your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?