"One's birth is an eminent picture of salvation. I certainly had no choice the matter. Did you?

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I didn't decide my birth, And God chose to baptize me too.
"In the case of salvation, it's because one is better and does better than the other."
Wow that's exactly how Jesus put it! With countless examples.
Matthew 7
24“Therefore everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them,
may be compared to a wise man who built his house on the rock.
25“And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and
yet it did not fall, for it had been founded on the rock.
26“Everyone who hears these words of Mine and does not act on them,
will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand.
27“The rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and slammed against that house; and it fell—and great was its fall.”
You think there is more saved wise men who build on rocks or fools who build on sand?
God didn't decide for you to build your house on sand. You did that by yourself. Quit blaming God for your mistakes.