I expect that from unbelievers, not fellow believers, and particularly not fellow Baptists.
It should. Check out the quote from Paul's letter to his protégé in my signature
We shouldn't be "strengthening resolve and arguments" or blowing off steam at brothers and sisters in Christ! That's just not right. I'm guilty of it myself at times. That doesn't make it right.
Yeah, I didn't say "at" anyone. Decompressing is entirely a self regulating enterprise. It isn't aimed at anyone. Usually I'm checking posts between meetings, while waiting for someone, or with a few minutes of downtime. This is entirely self contained.