You're the one that brought up the Primitive Baptist vs. other Baptist issue.
The rest of us merely answered the question you asked according to how we see it.
I don't believe any one made an issue of the differences.
Others presented scripture supporting their view and I did likewise with mine.
I find nothing wrong with that at all.
I don't think anyone was trying to start a debate between Baptists.
I certainly wasn't.
Further, knowing that Christians can be perfectly secure with their "hope" of salvation to come verses having to "know" through some magical feeling of absolute confidence - a false hope in one's self perhaps - might actually give them some peace verses
agonizing over the doubts - in themselves - they may face from time to time.
That might well make some of God's chosen children more comfortable knowing that it's really all in His hands.